Sunday, 10 March 2013

Inexhaustible grace


Lent 4 year C Sermon 13 Prodigal Son
And the ultra-religious… the super pious surrounding Jesus …are muttering with their noses wrinkled…
‘This rabbi…this teacher…this Jesus
welcomes sinners and eats with them…’

So naturally Jesus tells them a story
about an extremely righteous but resentful older son looks at the ground and sulks…oh come on Dad! ‘my younger brother has squandered half your estate… and now he comes back home, and you kill the fattened calf for him!

You sacrifice the most precious… living… thing ...
you have ………for him

The boys are acting up…as boys do…
no matter how you slice it as a parent…the behaviour of each son in Jesus’ story…causes heartache for the father [pause]

And as he makes his final journey to Jerusalem
Jesus tells yet another story…in which no one dies
only a prized and precious…and unblemished calf…[pause]

For you and I… sitting here in third millennium New Zealand …it’s tempting to see the story the way we always have…through the lens of our own kiwi cultural assumptions …tempting to draw the same familiar conclusions.

Ain’t it awful… how the youngest son runs off…gets in with the wrong crowd…hits the booze and the drugs…
and ends up on the bones of his arse…
and isn’t it wonderful how his father joyfully welcomes him home… when he’s ready to say sorry…

Maybe God’s like that…pretty simple eh?

And isn’t it sad the other son… is so caught up in resentment and anger that he cuts himself off…
from the joy and celebration his father so longs for him to share…isn’t it a shame… he’s so blinded by resentment and unforgiveness…so self-absorbed…
with what he thinks he deserves…
the older brother actually misses out on the party

Certainly that understanding of the story makes sense to us …in our culture…but Jesus wasn’t a 21st century novelist …he was a first century rabbi. And so we must beware
of our cultural conditioning…and our familiarity with this parable…lest we miss something…some treasure
hidden deep in Jesus words…that may reveal more about God than we expect

some meaning Jesus knew his first century audience would take from the story of the prodigal son.

So what happens if we walk around the story…about this father and his two lost sons…And view it from a different cultural perspective…from the standpoint of a middle-eastern crowd of tax collectors and sinners……..
and ultra-religious pharasees…

Well fortunately we can do this…because biblical scholars like Ken Bailey have lived and studied in the middle-east from Morocco to India…from Turkey to the Sudan asking the locals…
how they understand the parable of the prodigal son.

Ken Bailey made some amazing discoveries
and what really surprised him… was how consistently and passionately… people responded to this story at a gut level …especially to the shocking suggestion that a son would dare ask for his inheritance…while his father was still alive

In the middle-east…this isn’t seen as the impulsive act of an irresponsible young man…but as a malicious and abusive insult… to his father. Bailey could find no law… no custom …among Jews or Arabs…which entitles a son to a share of his father’s estate…
while the father is still alive.

In fact such a request would destroy the relationship. As though the son had shouted to his father’s face,
‘I can’t wait for you to die…’

No in this parable the son’s behaviour is far more serious than running off to Europe…with the money your parents saved for your college education…and ending up in the gutter. Arab’s and Jews listening today to this story react just as those in the first century would have…

hearing the sons contempt for the father they’re just waiting with baited breath…for the father to explode with rage …certain of the punishment he will rain down
on his youngest son [pause]

But what actually happens?

Utterly against cultural expectations
the father doesn’t retaliate…but instead
he agrees to his son’s request

completely… and
without conditions
Such a thing is unheard of in the middle-east.
Ken Bailey found it’s almost impossible
for them to imagine a love like this Father’s love…

This father… in Jesus’ story…is flying in the face of
every cultural normthis father is overturning
all social expectations… This father’s love
is utterly different than any father they’ve experienced…

this father’s love contains… the element of grace
grace that grants the son his freedom
even to reject the father. [pause]

And there’s another twist to the story we’d never guess without fresh insight into the middle-eastern mind…

As well as expecting the father to strike back
Bailey’s listeners insist… it’s the duty of the older son
to act as mediator…and as peacemaker…
to heal the broken relationship

But in Jesus parable…the older brother does nothing of the kind…instead he distances himself from the whole drama … and to middle eastern ears…the older son remains disgracefully silent…and does absolutely nothing
to protest the insult to his father…
or stop the disintegration of his family

The behaviour of both boys… is unheard of in eastern culture…effectively they’re destroying what every father dreams of…that his sons would live peacefully together after his death…enjoying the abundance of their inheritance.

this Jewish custom of yashabh yahadh
is idealized in Psalm 133

How good and pleasant it is when brothers dwell together in unity! It is like precious oil poured on the head,
running down on the beard, running down on Aaron's beard,
down upon the collar of his robes. As if the dew of Hermon
were falling on Mount Zion. For there the LORD bestows his blessing, even life forevermore. [pause]

By taking his portion of the estate…and leaving the village …the younger brother has effectively turned his back
on his father’s dreams of blessing and family unity…
and in his refusal to act…so has his older brother. [pause]

 

But of course the story doesn’t end here…
the father gives what he’s
asked…and the youngest son…
in his
freedom… carelessly descends
into his own self-created
hell…[pause]


And when he’s as low as he can go …when he can’t slide down any further…stripped…of all physical…emotional and spiritual support… starving and penniless…
the lost son decides to change direction
and turn his life around…to head home…[pause]

When we listen carefully…we can hear in the prodigal son’s words the familiar Jewish teaching on repentance. you must turn…you must repent…to earn God’s forgiveness. Everyone listening to Jesus story… would recognise the words the son says to himself as he plans and rehearses the traditional speech of repentance …

‘I’ll just go back
to my father and I’ll say: Father, I’ve sinned… against heaven and against you.
I’m no longer worthy to be called your son…..
so just make me like one of your hired men.'

Life has defeated him…his own judgment has destroyed him…he’s lost everything…and now he’s coming home

He knows his abusive and offensive behaviour
will have hurt… not only his father and the entire extended family…but the community he turned his back on…
Jesus listeners expect an angry vengeful mob…
to descend on the young man the moment he steps foot in the village. [pause]

But you know what…his father has been watching the horizon every day…and sees him coming

before anyone else can get to him…before his son
can open his mouth in the ritual of confession

the father acts… quickly and decisively
And runs to meet him… as no dignified mid-eastern patriarchever ran…

Before his lost son can speak… in front of everyone
in the community…the father throws his arms around him
Before his child can even begin to repent…
his father… substitutes kisses… for words… [pause]

And suddenly the young man’s
cultural and religious
world view…is shattered…his understanding of how the relationship with his dad really works… is changed forever by his fathers’ costly demonstration… of love…
before the boy can say anything….grace is extended…

And… the boy accepts that grace. [pause]

Jesus’ meaning is clear

this is love like no other …whatever it costs…the father will pay…homecoming will be celebrated… everyone is invited…a banquet is set…the best wine will be served
And the father’s most precious calf …will be sacrificed

There is to be a great feast of reconciliation.

 And the ultra-religious round him… mutter
 ‘This Jesus welcomes sinners and eats with them…’

and if we identify with the bitter older brother…if we refuse to join the party…if we can’t let go…
of our anger, and resentment and our un-forgiveness

then…surprise surprise…the father shatters our understanding of his love as well…as he leaves his place of honour at the banquet table…as he leaves the other guests …even the guest of honour…to come out to find us…
and plead with us… to join the feast…

Make no mistake, Jesus wants everyone with ears to hear
to recognise the father’s behaviour in the story
is a promise…a revelation… of the grace of God.

In this parable…Jesus sends a message of grace
to two groups of people. The question for us…
for me and for you is… ‘which group do we identify with’.

Do we stand with the cynical and bigoted religious authorities who resent sharing the table with sinners?
Or are we among those…who were once lost like I once was … yet long to return?

To the first group Jesus says… stop projecting your need to elevate yourselves above the rest of humanity…
onto God… your pride and your obsession with honour and status…has no place in the kingdom of God.

To the second group Jesus says…God’s grace is limitless …and God is just watching out for your return.

To both groups Jesus says
No matter how up yourself you are
or how down on yourself you are
God’s love for you is inexhaustible.

[pause]

May this offering of the inexhaustible hospitality of God be our guiding principle as the people of God. And may we put on the mind of Christ…may we show love like no other …whatever the cost to our status or image…   

May the compassion and love of God seize our insides… as it did the father in our story and may it move us as it did the father…to public displays of justice and reconciliation…to offer grace before we’re asked? May the love we offer to our community be as scandalous as the love of the Christ we follow.

You can buy Ken Bailey's book 

Jesus Through Middle Eastern Eyes: Cultural Studies in the Gospels at 

http://www.amazon.com/Jesus-Through-Middle-Eastern-ebook/dp/B001I461LY